Fat girl who is dating?

i finally found a guy who likes art(who i met at a art gallery) and is so cute...our first date was at the movies everything went well but now he ignores my calls and i asked him if he wanted to go with me to my friends wedding and said let me think about it...i have a feeling that were not dating anymore...help!

Well..being fat doesn't have anything to do with it. He obviously liked you or he wouldn't have went out with you.I think he just lost interest, and that happens to the best of us. I've been fat and I've been skinny, going through my fat phase at the moment. I take better care of myself when I'm fat. I know it sounds stupid, but I keep my make up on, fix my hair everyday and buy pretty cloths and I don't feel fat, guys ask me out all the time. My husband really needs to buy me a bigger wedding ring, my fingers got to fat and i can't wear my old ones, LOL!
What I'm trying to say is, I think your putting yourself down because you think your fat. You think you finally found a guy that you think showed intrest in you and now he wants to move on. Keep a ood personality and do as I say, it's a big self esteem booster. You'll have a new boyfriend in no time. You have to love yourself before you can love another.

sounds like he lost interest ...im sorry

What has being "Fat" got to do with it...???

Move on sister! "He's not that into you" Like they say on Oprah.

You answered your own question. You're not dating. Nobody here can help you accept the reality of your situation.

drop him and find someone love to be with chubbies....like me
grrrrrr
LOL

yep, sounds like something went sour. The best thing to do is move-on.

Men lose interest very quickly. Find someone who appreciates you.

i think you may have come on a little too strong. asking a guy to accompany you to a wedding after one date isn't the smartest idea. and how much did you call him? (and it doesn't matter if you're fat or not, personality rules at the end of the day) i don't think you are dating but don't let him know you're bummed about it, play it cool like you dont care, give him some space to miss you, don't call him

maybe he's jus into friends.

Are you the fat girl ? You went out one time and now he is ignoring you ? I wouldn't say EVERYTHING went fine, otherwise you would still be dating. If he got past the fat image and went out with you once, you must have done something else to screw it up. THINK !

That happens quite often. You need to do what's comfortable for you, but don't let someone treat you that way. You are beautiful as is. Always make you happy. There's plenty of men out there that aren't that shallow. You deserve better than that, he wasn't worth your time, move on.

well i guess its time to move on.....sorry maybe that guy found someone esle .......um.....fat ? what is that got to do with the situation unless ya blaming yaself being fat for him ...plz stop that its only a waste of time ...he don't like ya its his lost not yours .....

Sorry to hear that. But I have done this myself, actually. (blind date). I just don't find big girls attractive. It's one of my standards, deal with it. Trouble is, it's not easy to break that to a girl, especially when your still getting to know them, hence, you just ignore, hoping they'll get the hint and go away. It's tough, but it's true. The best advice I can give is just move on. Maybe he'll come around. But if not, good luck. They're are many, many good men out there that like a big women.

He has probably lost interest! If you went too
far on the date, he got what he was after.
(Call that the Man Marathon!) If you've only
invited him to a wedding, after only one date,
you are moving way too fast for him! Besides,
you are likely to meet a guy at the wedding!

talk to him face to face to see what is going on. if he lost intrest find someone who will love you the same way as you love him