I've never had a bf before and i just moved to chicage for a graet new job at an art gallery. So I meet this guy through a friend, and we start to spend a lot of time together. We usually hang about my place watching tv and relaxing. He' s few years older than I am (he's 28, i'm 25). So far I really like him, and I believe that the feeling is mutual. However , recently my friend invited me over for lunch and told me that my beau's family is known to be involved in organized crime. He is so cool, and possibly a great catch, but the last thing I need is some tony soprano type of guy. Should I leave him alone or just flow with it until I can verify her story? I know that it is unnatural for someone my age to not have dated anyone ever and I should maybe stick it out, but I don't want to be involved with someone who engages in bad things either.
I think you should talk to him about it. I know that might seem scary but you shouldnt be with him if you cant talk to him. so talk to him about it. dont freak out whatever you do though. |
