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My wife has a co-worker/friend who is a lesbian. nice girl, been to my home and her partner also. My wife talks alot about this girl and they text each on cell phones frequently. I noticed that my wife's friend never uses the regular landline phone, she always texts. Twice she has called over the regular phone and this girl sounded nervous when i picked up. Once while visiting us at home they told my wife how nice I was to them. Im nice to all my guests. also whenever this girl adresses my wife i.e. "need help with that" it gives me a weird feel of intimacy, at least with the friend. My wife has been out with these girls:bowling,gay bar, dinner party,straight bar,art gallery, oh and I noticed that when my wife comments that her co-worker didnt show up to work, my wife comes home earlier than usual. I know that my wife erases most of the text messages she sends/receives,makes me wonder more. My wife denies any interest. AM i over reacting, Am I headed for a divorce? Any opinion ?Thnx have you asked yourself if you have been taking her for granted with her sexual needs? just like taking care of your favorite flower pot... do you talk to your flower pot.. water that flower pot as often as needed.. have you taken her for a romantic dinner et al? women never look for "fire" to play with if their men have taken good care of them- not just in matters of material things but emotional needs as well. if you haven't ... better do something or you will indeed face a separation or divorce in the end. its your choice. your worst competitor is not another man... its another woman. you will have difficulty winning her back if she gets deeply involve with the other. this part is worldly lust and- as human, very dfficult to let go specially if it answers the urge and cravings in the manner of satisfaction and ecstacy. work on it now. don't confront them... just make your moves of winning her back into your arms. confronting them will only complicate the situation or perhaps make things worst for you both. good luck!!! You're screwed. Just re-read your question and replace "lesbian" with "man." You're not over reacting at all. I hate to say this, but I think she is hiding something. Sit with her and ask her in a mature and non threatening way. If something isn't right talk about it, don't wait until it is too late. |
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