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My wife is acting strange...? |
So she started playing that Second Life game and that soon became her first life. She was on it at all times...even late into the night.....next i started noticing she smelled like marijana and i asked her about it but of course she denied it even when i found it in her purse. Then I caught her in a couple of "make-out" session in that Second Life game, and of course she denied anything was going on. Then, she started having an EXTREME intrest in our love life after years of only being intamate a handful of times per year. Soon after I found condomns in her car and she said she got them for us even tho we havent used them since we got married (13 yrs ago). Then a couple of weeks ago I had an art gallery opening and she dissapeared into a back gallery with some strange guy...agian she said nothing is going on. Tonight a "guy friend" text messaged her "I want you"...ok so of course she is cheating on me....but what i want to know is how to go about erasing half of my life. Wow it is amazing how people can addicted to role playing games on the net. It sounds like your wife was bored with her real life and now she is living a fantasy. No one could blame you for leaving her right now, especially when there is such convincing evidence that she has cheated on you. On the other hand 13 years of marriage is a lot to throw away. I think that your wife is in serious need of counseling. If she won't go then you need to because this is a lot of heartbreak to work through for you. It sounds like she loves you but she wanted something more that you were not giving her. If you decide that the relationsip is worth saving, you need to act now before she does something dangerous. Decide what you want to talk to her about and instead of accusations, try a softer approach and ask her what she was missing in your relationship and if she wants to save the marriage. Tell her that you are willing to work on the things that she feels that she is lacking from you. Tell her that you want to go to counseling to work these problems out. Good luck to you. Blessed Be she is cheating on u what do u need her to hit u over the head with a sign. Move on. That 1/2 of your life has That is really bad but when you look at the whole picture you have to step back and ask your self this question,do you stay and put up with this now or walk away with something you cant get rid of later.(hint).I know you cant get that time back but when you leave you get the chance to make a lot more happy memories. You can't erase it & you can't blame yourself for her going nuts. Even if she trys to blame you. At some point you will deside enough is enough of the crazy & move on. But you & only you can deside when & how you'll do it. She's obviously wrapped up in herself too much to care what you think. What u gonna do? She was banging another dude at YOUR art show opening. So, do you sit around & let her treat you like a dog or move on? You deserve better bro! Good luck! who told you that you should?my husband cheated on me even though now i am feiling divorce but you should not give up on her firstly you need to ask yourself why your life together is missing something ofcourse you feel bad about it as i was but give it your best chance ,If you do not have evidence go easy with her try to let her fall again in your love be caring tender and happy,not only sex no care and love have special happy time together ,always tell her that may be you both have taken each other for granted but now you know that she is the first and most important person ,but between you and me you should put in your mind that this may not work out ,if she loves you or even care she will see that she does not need the other relationship, but do not devestate yourself as this may not work out FOOL YOURSELF FOR 2 monthe or so put your main plan and your secondly plan and put her always under your eyes but do not confrunt her except when you feel you can not give her any more REMEMBER for her to give this double life needs time, STRONG PEOPLE NOT WHO FIGHT AND STRUGGLE BUT THOSE WHO CAN PUT THEIR ACTION AND MIND TO THEIR BEST INTREST ,the ability to forgive makes you a better man.do your best so that later on you will have no one to blame but her its going to be hard but you just need to move on dont forget just move forward and find some1 that will treat yuou will respect other then cheatin an liein about it good luck hun |
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