Please help me i am pregnate!!! and only 18?

hey everyone this morning i woke up and took apregnancy test so i could see if i was pregnate and guess what i am but yeah my bf is very surportive and we both cant suport the baby i live in brisbane and i was just wondering how do i go about getting an abortion and how much it is this kills me to do this but i have just started my photography diplomer and that is what is goingtobe my career i need urgent help please!!!!!!

for the fact that i was taking the pill and i never missed one pill is why i am scared i have been safe and if u understood my situation then u would see why i can just give it up for adoption and why i cant keep the baby it is very complicated even though me and my bf would love to! so if u want to ask me in deeper if you have a problem about me asking this then e-mail it to me ok dont get all your panties in a twist b4 you know what is really going on but thank you to thoes people who understand

Don't murder your baby :(. We all make choices in life and consequences come with them. As much as we may want to run from them, is murder really an option? Consider also that many of the consequences of abortion include (besides lifelong emotional scarring) infertility and even death.

I am not saying this to make you feel bad but rather to open your eyes to your options. If you kill the human life growing within you you will *never* be able to get it back. I think the choice you have before you now is do you love stuff more than you do your baby's life. If you murder your child you may yet have more stuff than you would if you didn't.

Stuff if replaceable. If you choose to let your baby live you might have some diffuculty acquiring stuff at first but since stuff comes and goes anyway you may end up having it sooner or later. My point is, give your baby a chance. I have included some links below which may help. I pray you make the right choice and choose life over convenient and legalized murder. :)

As a personal example, my cousin was 15 when he got a girl pregnant. They both had the option of abortion but when they talked it through with their families they realized that there was hope. There's always hope and help available if you look. Now my cousin's boy is going to be three years old and he is the light of his life. If he and his girlfriend had chosen to murder the human life then he would never be that happy. He has made many changes in his life and has done some growing up since then but he is a better person for it.

My mom had me when she was still in Pharmacy school. She finished school and is a successful pharmacist now. Having this baby will do nothing to alter your plans, please keep that in mind :).

I'm praying that you find the help you need and see that keeping the baby is not only possible but very doable.It will be a change in your life but I pray you see that this baby is a blessing and not someone to be disposed of at the first sign of inconvenience.(limited to 300 characters) Report It

Where would you be if your mother and father had aborted you?

I know your baby will thank you for not making other choices when it is grown up. I am praying for you. God bless you, your boyfriend, and your families! :) Add more comments here if you need more help or want to correspond. Report It

start looking for child support

Mary Stopes organisation or family planning, don't have the kid it will ruin your life
its not killing babies its a few cells , remember yahoo answers is full of American religious nuts who dont believe in evolution
Mary Stopes is international woman's health organisation with a great reputation in Sydney it costs about $250 but they can help you with costs

remember it is NOT a baby, it is only few cells the procedure because the fetus isn't anything recognisable is only like having a curette
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you need to find a planed parenthood or some type of womens clinic in your area.

Go to planned parenthood. If you are a student they can help you financially.

Don't listen to all these negative people. It is your choice and whatever you choose to do is right for you.

God bless you, that's a big choice. Have you considered having the baby and giving it up for adoption? There are lots of places that will pay for all medical expenses and even house you if you like until you give birth. Plus, you will know who has your baby if you like, and if things change....

Abortion is permanent.

You can look up the abortion question, but I urge you to consider all options before making that decision. It can't be reversed, you know. You can get help sometimes from family to seek the goals you have. There are ways. If abortion is your answer, then make sure you can live with that decision 5 years from now, 10 years from now, etc. Lots of people have gotten pregnant at an inconvenient time in their lives and made it just fine. It's a state of mind, really.

well look in the ohone book and find a number for a clinic . i don't know if they have a prilgrams where you live but in NJ they have one in the town of Montclair. so i know they have to have one where you live . They range in prices depending on how far along you are .

The only reason you would ask this is to get a rise out of people. If you really wanted an abortion you would just open a phone book or go talk to a doctor. Next time consider condoms or pills.

there is a high risk that if you have an abortion..it may make you stirile so i would think very carefully about what you do.

Well before you totally panic, go see your OBGYN. Let him tell you for certain you are pregnant before you start making plans. If the pregnancy is confirmed, and If you know for certain you want to go for adoption, discuss this with your doctor. He will be able to point you in the right direction.

I can imagine how hard this must be for you to ask and as well as how hard of a decision it must be for you to make. I am not sure of the cost? I think it gets more expensive the farther along you are and they won't do it after so long so it is something that if you really feel that strongly about look up the number in your yellow pages and call...I pray that you know what you are doing and have alot of people around you to give you alot of love...good luck....It is not outrageously expensive

The most important thing right now, is that, YOU REMEMBER THIS FOR NEXT TIME.

Social Services will help you with that. They will guide you through everything you need to know. There's a lot of hot line numbers you can call in the phone book.

Good luck.

Now I know you've thought about this obviously but you do REALLY need to think-I mean this is someones life you're ending here, you can't just get rid of it without propperly thinking it through. I mean do you want the baby? If you want it-then keep it. I don't know your situation but if your boyfriend doesn't want it then (I don't really want to say this) don't listen to him-it's your baby and it's your choice! You say you can't support the child but maybe you could have some help from your family or close friends? I say again-REALLY think this through. . .

GOOD LUCK!!

Try here:

http://www.abortionaustralia.com/

It lists places, services, financial support, medical and post abortion counseling.

you don't have to abort. you can at least give the kid up for adoption!!!!!!! i mean if you are old enough to have sex you are old enough to take care of a kid......!!!!!!!!

Go to planned Parenting and get some professional counseling ....there are other routes to take , killing your baby is not the best option....Your baby is not the one who screwed up.....so it should not be punished

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Ok so you are going to be selfish and kill a baby just because you messed up and screwed some guy without protection. Maybe you should have payed attention in school. You would have learned that sex actually causes pregnancy and how to spell the word PREGNANT!!!!

Go to planned parenthood, if it is early enough you can get the abortion pill, If you must do it though please don't wait.

being 18 and having a child is not the end of the world. not to be mean but if you are not ready to have a family then do not have sex. i am 19 and had my son when i was only 16 and it changed my life but my son did not ask to be brought into this world i made that decision when i had sex. so it is not your child's fault you had sex its yours so deal with it don't kill your child because of your mistakes go to planned parenthood and they can help you. there are alto of people in the world who can not have there own chldren and woudl love to adopt a child.

......and on top of that you cant spell - things are bad.

What is Pregnate? Its not a word.

you're selfish, and if you kill your kid, you'll be a murderer too

Learn proper grammar in life, if you do nothing else.

Put the baby up for adoption. This isnt the place to ask where and how to kill babies. Theres phone books and doctors offices for that, any medical office and direct you.