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Is the reason hubby wants to see his daughter because?? |
I am 24 yrs old and have been married 4 yrs.The relationship is not stable we are off and on more off than on.We fight all the time and cant agree on anything least of all on how our daughter should be raised at this point.We needed a marriage therapist to help us decorate our old home!I was a model and he was a photographer a match made in hell!We seperated after i gave birth to my daughter when she was not quiet 1.She is know a little over 2 yrs old.I have been travel with her for work to just about every where even to south africa! I think his reason for wanting to see his child is because i have started the paper work for divorce and have started seeing someone else?He has not seen her since he left me.No child support either! Has anything happened in his life that would make him realize he has a daughter and makes him want to take care of her? Make sure you know his real reasons before you start judging. Doesn't seem like he ever cared about her, but in any case, he still is the father and has rights. Good luck with your divorce and best of luck with your new relationship. okay. you are complaining because he is trying to be an active father. why? if you started on the divorce, then the whole child support order hasn't taken into effect yet. but it will. but that still doesn't give you permission to withhold his daughter. don't be selfish. let your daughter have her father. she is entitled to it. it very well may be true that he just wanted to start seeing your child because you are filing for a divorce. the reason behind this is probably because it slapped him into reality and he wants to start seeing his child before he loses the child too. as far as support ask for it and if he does not start helping ask for it in the divorce. he is still the father and still has to pay for his child I would not let him take the child anywhere until after the divorce and then he will only be able to take the child within whatever state you live in without a kid napping charge. wait until the divorce is final continue with the divorce. No matter what his reasons are for wanting to see his daughter, he has the right. That being said, men like that are scum, tell him he is either to be in his daughters life or out. file for full custodian. thats the best thing you could do. reason been what you have already told us. he lives miles away. Stop the pity party, be glad he wants to see her. That is life when you have a child BOTh of you are parents for life, it is not up to you to choose that or to try and influence your kid to not see him. She has enough to deal with without this type of nasty behaviour. Be the bigger person and let him see her, if the details around the visits bother you make sure you are clear with the lawyer that it has to be at his expense... that is what you pay lawyers to sort out. Do not stop your daughter seeing her father...it will backfire on you later in life. Experience |
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