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My wedding was on friday and it was nothing but shambles. My husbands family didnt do anything at all the entire time up until the wedding and they were the ones who were pushing for us to get married the whole time. His mom was completely miserable the whole day and his mom and step dad left a half hour into the reception. Then his mom had the nerve to say to my mom that the entire thing was such a disgrace, it was just so disgraceful! She didnt even help-what gives her the right to say that???!!?! my mom helped the entire time up until two days before the wedding and then just stopped doing anything. During the reception, she didnt even try to be a hostess and when a problem came about, she came to me with the problem and made me cry at my reception. While getting dressed at her house, she kicked me out of the house and screamed like a maniac in front of my dad (they arent together anymore), all of my bridesmaids and the photographer. I was so embarrassed. we can cry together........ my wedding came and we both got up late, I gave my husband his breakfast and asked if he could cook me a couple of eggs while I took my bath, all of a sudden he threw the eggs across the room, all over the wall and floor and started bit*hing that he had to get dressed. Next no one came early to help get me dressed. My hot curler broke and I had flat hair, my nylons ran and then everyone showed up at once to follow us to the church. I was mulling over the morning when my sister came and told me my husband was not good enough for me and I should have waited to find someone better. I was almost ready to just walk out and when I told her that she said well your here now. after that we went to my inlaws for the reception, my mom in law turned away my sisters cause there were too many in her house she told them to come back in an hour. They drove 2 hours and had no where to go so they went to dinner and had to use my wedding money. later we went to my sisters house to finish the party for the younger crowd and my bff who primised to bring my other friends never showed she decided to go to free ladies night at the bar and no one else knew where the party was. My husband's friends girl kept trying to hit on my brother in law. ugh. Are you sure they are the problem? (sounds like Bridezilla) That's a shame! I thought my mother was evil. Weddings are the most stressful of all family events - even more than funerals. Just act like everything went fine and don't let them get to you. The important thing is that you and your new husband build a successful marriage (which, by the way, ain't easy). that sucks. I would hold a grudge for quite a while. i know thats not the right thing to do but a girls wedding day is suppossed to be special its one day we look forward to our whole lives and if you choose correctly you only get one shot at it. everyone is suppossed to cater to you cuz u'r the bride Sounds like the wedding from hell. Well, at least there were no fistfights. Time heals all wounds and wounds all heels. I would avoid them for a while at least until the memory fades a bit. I'm really sorry it turned out bad, should have been better for you. But I hope you have a better marriage than you did a wedding. Good Luck to both of you. I'm so sorry. :*( I wish I could have helped. You didn't mention your new husband. How does he feel about all of this? Is he being suppotive of you? can you take a honeymoon? Small vacation? just get away. And, forget the "relatives". Just because you are blood related doesn't mean you have to put up with their insincerity. Again, I am sorry that THE day wasn't special for you. Big hugs from this stranger, Hun... |
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