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How can I convince my husband to re-do our wedding.? |
My husband and I got married last may. We had originally planned the typical fairytale wedding. Durring this planning I tried on lots of different amazing gowns; we visited romantic castles in which to have the wedding; we spoke to priests. I was so excited about the whole thing. But then we had a few financial troubles and had to scale everything back. Long story short - No Castle, no church, no gown ( I wore a crappy cotton dress :( Not only that but none of my family was there. There were only two people on my sad empyt side. And we didn't even have a professional photographer. Whenever I look back at the photos I feel like crying. I love my husband, and I'm so happy to be married to him. But I just wish we could've had a proper wedding. How can I get my husband to agree with me without hurting his feelings? BTW, he thought the wedding was great because it was so "laid back". And how do I convince him to have a church wedding? BTW, we're not very religious, especially me. Just tell him how you feel and that on your 10 year aniversary you want to renew your vows. It shouldn't hurt his feelings. Re-doing your wedding so early, would just make you look foolish and remind everyone of your supposedly crappy wedding. Besides, no one wants to sit through it all again. Try to get a new perspective on things. Weddings are not that important and you can renew your vows in a few years and have the party that you wanted to have! wedding doesn,t mean how much u spent on what and what you show off but thing is that what u think of ur husband and ur husband what thinks of u. If u both are happy with each other then u does not matters what u have and what u dont have. if u want to celebrate ur wedding well even ur husband would have thought something for u have u ever thought of that. U first think that u are better than many human beings that u are with ur loved one the person whom u love the most. u dont run for what u dont have but first u feel what u have. speak to ur husband sometime when he is in good mood if he loves u he will definately understand ur feelings and he will help u. then u will find that u r the est and on the top of the world. if u succeed to do so please let me know i will be very happy wish u a very good luck. urs friend and let me know mail me at www.crazydilip2006@yahoo.com A friend of mine got married in court last year, this year she was HOPING to redo it all, but she too has financial troubles. I doubt she will ever be able to do this. So if you have the finances now - GO FOR IT!!!! Tell hubby you wanto renew your vows not redo the wedding. I always say you cant put a price on love, so if you sit him down and said you just want the opportunity to renew your vows as a token of your love, he might just go for it, But if you wait, the money might just never be there. |
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