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Does my boyfriend still think about his ex? |
I have been with my boyfriend for 6 weeks, about 7 months ago his ex dumped him. He was in the army and she lives in Germany, they had dated for 3.5 years. We started going out and everything has been going well. However, last night I saw on his computer desktop pictures of her, two of the two of them together and then one of her laying on a couch wearing lingerie. Curious me, I then opened his internet browser and saw in his inbox messages to her. They began by her asking why he was sending pictures of her, he said that he had sent those pictures to a modeling agency or photographer. His ex is very pretty. From there they go on talking about what they are up to, he mentions me and maybe even sent a picture because in one reply she mentions that I am not pretty, that I am ugly. (I think she is being mean because I鈥檓 his new girl). Then, he does tell her that I am beautiful, but not as beautiful as her! How he has given up on the idea of ever being with anyone as beautiful as her! There is mention of feelings or about getting back together. I still felt furious that he said that, he always says how beauty is all she had, that she was not a good person like me, but still, that hurt! I confronted him and at first he said he did not put the pictures on his computer, then he said yeah he sent them to a photographer. But why would he still be involved in her life like that, trying to get her a modeling job? Should I be worried? She is the one that dumped him, do you think he still has feelings for her. He assures me that he does not love her anymore and that he loves me. He said that beauty is all she has and that鈥檚 why he said those things to her. Besides that I have met his family and he has met mine, things appeared to be going well. She is in Germany and we are in the states. wow ... i would be soooooo mad. *hugs u* aw sweetie.. yeah id have a talk with him about this fo sure. From what youve said it sounds like he still likes her. Its possible that he likes you both but for different reasons. Maybe he wants to be with you because he sees you in his future and as a soul mate - but talks to her still soley to fullfil his sexual needs and attractions. I think he likes you more but its pretty obvious he has a thing for her still. If he doesnt wizen up and treat you liek your number 1 i'd walk outthe door hun. He also needs to delete her pictures. He still wants her. Obviously he needs more time. It took me a few years to get over a girl once, and hurt a couple of people in the meantime, didn't even realize it. He dated her for over 3 years - of course he's going to still have thoughts of her. You on the other hand have gone into his private world - a place where you should never have gone. If I were him, I'd dump your a**. How could he ever trust you? Trust is one of the foundations of a relationship. You blew it. Break up with him and tell him that you won't get back with him until he can prove it to you that he is over his ex. Its the only way, otherwise you are just wasting your time. Trust me...Ive strung people along so many times just like he is stringing you along. Good luck. 1st take the pic. of her out of computer...it finished so stop talking to her he is with u , he should respect that, he would not like it if u talked to an es b f right? put ur picture in computer and change cel # so she cant call....monitor his computer,email,cel etc...to see what he is doing when u r not there. Dump him. He is not good enough for you. I think he is trying to make her jealous by showing he has moved on but I don't think he has otherwise he wouldn't be making excuses to contact her. I don't think he is ready to move on yet He's not ready for a serious relationship yet. If I were you, I'd move on. Tell him when he's over his ex, to give you a call. |
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