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Copycat best friend? |
i'm 22, so i am aware that this sounds a bit immature, but my bff of 10 years has always been a major copycat. let me explain. i wanna move to NY after i graduate, she's never been there and always says she wants to live near the beach in LA after college, but now she suddenly is looking for jobs in NY. also, she has tons of hobbies/activities that i don't take part in (dancing, surfing, etc.) b/c those things "just aren't my thing" but i respect that they are "her thing." meanwhile, whenever i take up a hobby or finally have something that i feel i can call "my thing" (photography, fashion design) she has to do that too. it's like even with her busy schedule, she still always has to do everything that i do as well. i know photography and fashion design aren't exclusive to me alone, but c'mon now. i look for new things just so i can have my own life, but she always follows me! i never have any stories to tell her or activities to "share" w/ her b/c she's right there w/ me every time! I hate friends like that. I think that her life just isnt good enough, so she is trying to live your life. It would be a nice compliment if it wasnt so darn annoying. Just keep living your life like you want to live it, and eventually she will find your hobbies don't suit her. Or maybe introduce her to someone who shares her interest in dancing and surfing, and maybe that will take her mind off of your life. Good Luck! tell her to leave you alone I know how you feel, but i am in 8th. You should confront her and ask her about why when you do something she does it too, my bff is just like her, she may be scared when you move she wil have noone to talk to.. she may feel yalll are like sisters, tel her how you feel, she will understand life I had a friend like this and felt like she was a stalker. I finally got so tired of it that I ended our friendship. If you don't want to end your friendship, start to steer her in the opposite direction. Make "your thing" the opposite of what you want. For example tell her that you changed your mind and are thinking of going into law or moving somewhere that is the opposite of where you would live etc. She will continue to do this forever, this problem won't go away on its own. You probably need to end this friendship. maybe your friend is realizing that you guys are going to grow apart after college...since you want to move to NY and she to LA...she just is too attached and doesnt want to part with you : ) lol...so she thinks by copying you, the two of you will become mroe bonded and not separate after graduation... i dunno but that would be my guess i get exatcly wat u mean my best friend copys everything i do i got contacts she got contacts i get shoes she gets shoes...just look at it this way she looks up to u |
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