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I walk in from shopping to my husband sitting at the computer on a WWF website, and the first thing I see if some woman on the screen, well we go back and search the history, and it's got about a dozen links of photo galleries of the WWF new girls, can't think of what you call them, but anyhow....who out there would consider this cheating, disrespectful?? Honest opinions please. I know we male and female, husbands and wifes all look when we see another attractive person, but does this fall into that catagory???? Thanks to anyone out there..... What people think, look at and do are entirely different things. Here's a question for you. Can you name a few people on television and in movies that you do take more than a passing look at? I confess that I Nip/Tuck's Julian McMahon does almost get my undivided attention (he does when I watch it with my friends). That has absolutely nothing to do with the fact that I adore my husband and would turn down both Julian McMahon and Jack Nicholson (quit laughing) flat if they showed up on my doorstep with scotch and orchids. Here's another thing: if my husband wanted me to avoid the likenesses of the divine duo, I would. I'd think he was being insecure and was insulting my devotion to him and I'd insist he work on that, but until he made some progress with it I'd honor his wishes because I love him. Our loved ones don't always have to be right or rational to deserve our cooperation. They DO have to tell us so we can cooperate, though. It doesn't sound to me like you told him looking at images of other women on the internet was unnacceptable, though. Getting upset with him for not reading your mind on this one isn't fair or productive. Making him feel unnatural for wanting to look at nearly naked women isn't, either. Telling him it makes you uncomfortable is a start. It's perfectly fair and reasonable, but you have to tell him why. You have to tell him how you feel about the idea of him looking at this material, and not by saying, "You make me feel...". Blame isn't important at all. What is important is that you both figure out what works for the two of you and then agree on it. Try to consider your own habits when examining his and figuring out what works, though. Seriously consider the movies and television you watch, the books you read and the music you listen to. Most women have a problem with their male partners looking at visual images, but adore music that makes them feel sensual. Their partners have no idea whatsoever what's going through their girlfriends' and wives' minds when they see the guys on television or hear that particular voice in their ears, and yet it's remarkably similar to how a guy feels when he looks at a visual image. It doesn't reduce the love for the partner, and it actually doesn't even stay in their minds for very long. Good luck, and have fun. If you and your husband actually share all the weird things that get you in the mood, I guarantee you'll have one of the funniest conversations of your lives. I thik hes cheating on you even if it on line its still cheating I do not see it as cheating or even as a sin or a bad act. for god's sake, he was just looking. How is that cheating, the only thing I can call that is boredom with you. You should step up your game so he doesn't have to look on those sites. looking isnt cheating keep an eye on him No it's not cheating but many instances like this could lead to cheating. Just let him know how you feel about it and if he truley respects you he will stop. Don't be overly insensitive about this though. Just my opinion. |
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