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Im 20 yrs old bf is 24 yrs old. we are thinkin of starting a family next yr any advice whats your opinion? |
im going to start studying a two yr diploma in graphic design and if i become pregnant am going to resort to doing night studies. My bf has a stable job that brings in 500-700 a week and i am qualified to do night time waitressing work and weekend freelance photography. we have been together for 3 yrs and are planning on getting married. Just want anyones advice and opinions...are you sucsessful? this has been a dream of mine for a long time. 1. Finish school 2. Find a stable job that pays well and has health insurance 3. Get married 4. Spend some time together alone as a married couple, travel, go out, have a great time 5. Have a baby If YOU both want to, that is your choice. It shouldnt matter what other people think. I say go for it. get married and wait at least 2 years. you are still young and you need to finish school without trying to do it with a newborn. give the marriage a chance to work before bringing kids into it. i did what you are asking and i wish i would have been smart enough to take my own advice. I think it will be fine as long as your income is okay. When you have the baby you will not want to work or at least really cut back. This can be really hard financially. Also you are young, just make sure the relationship is really strong. I would get married first...have a life as a married couple first...go on a honeymoon and spend time really getting to know one another. People change after children come along and after that ring is put on the finger...you might want to see how he is as a husband first before he becomes the father of your children. I knew my husband since I was 14 years old...we lived together for 3 years before we were married. We have been married for 4 years and I learned more about him after I got married then I thought I knew before we got married. Most of it was good stuff, but there were a few things that was shocking to me (like how much time he spends in front of the television watching sports...something he didn't do when we lived together and how he doesn't help around the house much anymore now that we are married), but it wasn't anything that we couldn't work on together. Good luck! It would be much better for the child if you were to get married and create a strong, stable environment first. After you've been married for while and your marriage is strong and committed then is the time to bring a child into the picture. There are too many little ones out there without that behind them. It's not only bad for them, it's bad for society in general. |
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