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Tricky social situation? What do I do? |
So, I have been helping two friends of mine out since the beginning of the year when they started a relationship. The girl is very bubbly, materialistic, and dislikes school. The boy fell deeply in love with her, in spite of his totally different personality: he loved philosophy, photography, and learning new things. Even though he fell pretty hard for her, she has always been insulting him behind his back to me and doesn't seem to be into him at all -- she's still into her ex. He's lost all traces of his personality in an attempt to please her (like, he stopped being sarcastic because she didn't like it), and she just complains about him constantly. So, for both of their sakes, I told her to break up with him. She tried, but then realized that she could get lots of positive atttention by letting him stay, and I'm fairly certain she blamed me for telling them to break up so she could get out of trouble with him. Now, they both act like they hate me, and I want to confront them. The best thing you can do is stay out of it now, if she did tell him that you told her to break up with him in order to for her to remain in the relationship then with you out of the picture he will begin to see her true colors. In my experience most people who are materialistic are also superfical, if he's old enough to date then he's old enough to see these traits in her and it's up to him if he wants to tolerate it or not, hopefully he'll learn quick that he'll never be happy with her because she doesn't love him, she loves what he can give her and do for her. Chances are he'll contact you once they've broken up and then you can tell him all you want to right now. Two's company and three's a crowd - bug out of their lives! I would try to get in a threesome with them. Then use to prey on her insecurities and steal her b/f. If it turns out that her b/f has a twin that's been lost at sea and is actually a doctor with amnesia....ALL THE BETTER! Let it die and move on would be best even though this bothers you now. if your not friends with them anymore i would just let them be are you serious? don't you have a life of your own? couples don't need a "moderator" to manage their lives. you must be totally bored with YOURS, since you had to try to control their relationship. why? no wonder they no longer talk with you.... it's not remotely healthy to stick our noses into the relationships of others. take care of YOURSELF, and let others do the same. you tried, and that's the best you can do for them. they made their own miserable bed so let them lie in it. just wash your hands of the whole thing and get better more appreciative friends. he will realize that hes been wasting his time sooner or later, and maybe a year or so from now, he will come to you and say you were right. but if they don't want to see it, even if its in flashing neon lights they wont see it until they are ready to . |
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