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Should a second wedding be as big as a first wedding? |
My friend is getting married and it will be her second time. (second for the man as well but not to each other) Her first marriage ended after her husband cheated and left her. Some people have criticized her plans. (a fancy dress, lots of guests, photographer, held at a fancy hotel) She feels she was cheated the first time because she was pushed into the marriage and then he left her. (she was expecting a baby and very young the first time) They are very kind and generous people who will host a wonderful reception. Should others complain just because it isn't her first wedding? HELL NO. I really hate when people go all, "thats tacky" on ya. Jesus, she's happy, it's her wedding, and she is in love! Tell her that anybody who criticizes her, she should tell them not to come to the wedding. It is her happiness that is important! Tell her congratulations on her happiness! My personal opinion is that second weddings, regardless of the first wedding's circumstances, should not be as big as the first, especially if both the man and women have been married previously. But, if the 2 of them want a big fancy wedding, let them have it. It's their money, it's their wedding, the opinions of others don't matter. She should do what she wants to do, and if that's a big wedding then so be it. People are coming to share their special day & if they are critising them for what they are doing, they are not realising the real reason behind the wedding. If it was my second marriage, I would do what I wanted, not what other people say. Just because it's a 2nd marriage, it doesn't make it any less special yes she should b/c i assume she is older now and is really in love and i thin every one deserves to have their dream wedding so tell her to **** what people are saying because it's her wedding and not theirs so tell her to go all out and get a horse and carriage if she wants it's her day to remember me If they could afford it then why not? I personally would do something small and go on a VERY nice honeymoon instead or use that money for something more important. Not that a wedding is not important, but at the end of the day, there are always going to be people who are going to criticize and talk bad about the wedding and reception. Again, if they have the money to do a big and elaborate wedding, then so be it. It's their day and they should enjoy it the way they want too without anyone having to put their two cents in. no, they need to get with it, she wants to have a fairy tale marriage with a happy ending, and it feels like the last one was a waste! Why should she settle for a cheapie wedding when this is the man of her dreams! You tell her YOU GO GIRL!!! |
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