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I recently was able to view wedding pictures of an old friend of mine on the website of his photographer? |
His mom, who has been in touch with me for years now promised to email me the pictures back in December, but here it is April and nothing. When I saw the pictures, they were quite honestly awful - my friend, the guy, looked sad in each one of them and his bride wasn't the most attractive girl - however, she seemed happy. I would think no matter how poorly they turned out, his mom would send them out because mom's just do that...or do you think she is ashamed of them and doesn't want me to see? Mind you, I got married the year prior and sent her pictures from our wedding, which had turned out amazing. Maybe she didn't feel her son's measured up? Is this possible?? Wow, I first want to say that most of the women who answered this question were really rude with their responses. I DO believe that she is not happy with the way his wedding pictures came out and that is why she has not sent them. She is probably hoping you don't care enough to see them and that she can let it slip by you. I wouldn't do anything - don't write to her until she writes to you, and be prepared that she might not write you anymore. Now that she has a daughter in law, she doesn't need to talk to you as much. It's obvious you dated this guy and were very close to him being that you are still in contact with his mom. At any rate, don't let these other women get you down - if your wedding pictures came out terrific, and her son's did not - then yes I could certainly see where she wouldn't want to send them to you for fear they would fail in comparison and you would rightly so wonder what in the world he sees in this bride of his. It sounds like he didn't really want to marry this girl but settled because the one he really wanted - possibly you - was no longer available. Hang in there!! Get over yourself! She probably just forgot or hasnt gotten to it yet-- Why not e-mail her and ask for them - maybe she lost your e-mail address. Or maybe it slipped her mind and what with her life being full of other things your getting pictures of her sons wedding was not the highest priority in her life. If you still want these awful pictures then perhaps the kindest thing to do is just drop her a note tell her which ones you say and liked and ask if she could send them or would she prefer you order them directly from the photographer. No... I think that she might have just forgotten.. let her know that you saw them on the web site to jog her memory. remember be kind... not every one is luck enough to have good looks and a great smile.. or for that matter a fantastic photographer. cheers. What is the true question here? Why she didn't send them because you are superior to her son? Or because she probably just forgot because she's a human being and doesn't realize that the only reason you want the pictures is to gloat over how superior yours are??? Get a life... I'm pretty sure she thinks they are fine. And that's what counts! This is not a major issue, quit overthinking it...have your reminded her? |
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